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We are almost 2 weeks past my surgery and already I can see that what I thought might be a story, isn't really much of a story at all.

Because I was the primary caregiver for our daughter, and because her disability requires so much staying on routine, I thought caregiver changes from myself to Denise would be much more stressful for us all. 

Generally, at least for Anna, that has not happened. In fact the opposite is what happened. Anna's transition to sleep at night, some of her behaviors, basically many of the things that were problems in the past have not totally blown up and totally disrupted our home like I thought would happen.  Things are not perfect but things haven't got to hell either.

Granted Denise's life has gotten a little more hectic, but Anna has for the most part been just fine.

I don't know what else to write about. 

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